Threading and JC S4 Class gathering

I met my best friend on Thursday after the series of emails from my stupid colleague mentioned earlier. Terrible. As usual, i had to do a emotional vomit out when i met her cos i wasn't in my best of moods. She's was feeling unwell, so after getting what i need to get out og my chest, i changed the topic. When we reached the threading place, she asked me to go first cos she wanted to see what's it like, whether is it painful etc. I've done it a few times already so the pain is really negligible. When's its her turn of threading, she did winced a few times but she did say, it was fine cos comparing it with plucking, this was really nothing...

Had a class gathering yesterday.. The flow of things went on better than expected. The ones who said they will turn up, turned up... It was a relatively fine class gathering.. ANd i really think i better start organising regular gatherings between the few of them. If not i think one fine day, we will end up having nothing to say.. That seems to be the case for one of my cliques who has been quite dependent on me to organise. At least one of my classmates tried to organise one but wasn't successful. Being the "head" of the organising committee, its really tiring. and after being so many years of being the main jelling component, i'm not so keen on being the jeller anymore. Unless its a clique that i really wanna keep, but then again, if the other parties are keen, they should take some initiative too right? sighh people always take others for granted, when it becomes a habit, the person who they thought is "SUPPOSE" to do this don't do anything, they'll say that person did not organise, that's why there was no class gathering. Oh well.. think its my fate. Terrible right? Right now, i'm in the midst of comtemplating whether to organise for gathering for another group of friends.. BUT i'm not the main organiser most of the time cos there will be some people who's bound to take over or help me half way lah... So don't mind organising lah..

After the dinner, we did had some drinks, BUT it was at MACs.. can you believe it? i still cannot believe that i actually sat there with them til 12am... Chris came to join me shortly after cos he was around at boat quay watching a live jazz performance. He said it was very nice. Too bad i wasn't able to go cos i can i would have gone.. COS i LOVE jazz! just that i don't really specially look out for jazz music/pubs to go. I love the sound of the cello playing in the background with the piano and drumset. I love it! maybe i should start looking out and downloading jazz music. Maybe that will also allow me to learn more about the music.

Listened to Chris talk about his issue with his mum, he sounds really frustrated when he was talking about. I mean i empathise with him, its really a sticky issue. Even i don't know what are the avenues or ways that we can get through to his mum. Poor thing you know. After hearing him say so much, i gradually realised that my family isn't as bad as his, and roy who was there too, was also quite a lucky soul..
I seriously wanna help him geth through to his mum, let her understand his difficulties and his sister's cos both of them are so tired. Probably time to hit my books and ask my friends who are social workers how to tackle issues like that cos if I was him, i will most probably feel extremely trapped, stressed and lost. 2 heads is always better than 1 right? Roy and i hopes that he can ventilate a bit more cos we know that he is seriously very stressed by it.. I hope he manages to get his weekend nap today without getting disturbed.. Well, what i can do besides brainstorming for ideas to tackle the matter, is be there to lend a shoulder to lean on (my sturdy shoulders are very comfortable, heh.. tested and proven by many who borrowed it for a little while) or lend my ears to listen..

I've always found sharing a friend's woes is a way of knowing a friend better, providing the support that i can and the best part is that the person actually shares with you. I think that's what matters the most. I thank my friends for letting me sharing their woes/happy memories cos it does let me know that i'm truely a friend of yours and not some hi-bye friend.. Love you all! q(",)P