Assumptions...

Between friends, i realised Assume is really the ass between you and me... esp when a party assumes that he or she has told you something, BUT in actually fact, no information was transpired between the 2... either one party keeps quiet and gets upset, or trash it out... too often then not, i observed that i always choose the first reaction cos i don't wanna argue.. cos the other party has already assumed... is there more need to clarify? i know its not right and bad for myself, cos i will get upset and not feel good... i always wonder what happens when i choose to trash it out? i don't do it often.. so don't really know what kind of outcomes it produces... nevertheless, trashing it out is good..

to chris: you know something, you did not tell me your change of mind that ya not gonna share the christmas present i got for roy after the time i asked if you wanted to share which was almost 2-3weeks ago... i dun mind giving the present on my own cos both roy and dave got me something which i really nice and i wantd... it was the part that you assumed that you told me beforehand.. you didn't even mention on the cab to roy's place... maybe you assumed that i would have gotten the idea that you are pulling out.. i'm sorry but i didn't get it at all... i have to admit that i was shock and a bit upset... don't know if you still check my blog.. but if you do, this is how i felt this morning...