Was chatting with tessa on her latest interest.. its this guy she knew for a while, but never really met up much...

She went on and on about how this guy is like.. and the times whereby she cannot understand what he is busy with etc... there were only 2 main points, she don't trust him and she is not ready for anoher bf... she had too much bad memories pertaining to her last relationship with her ex bf.. quite a bad experience and to be honest, quite a tramatic one.. honestly, i hope she would not jump into another relatioship so soon... cos she is really not ready...

hence, we decided that she should tr to treat this guy as a normal friend first... lessen her expectations cos its just a friend.. find out more and think about it... reminded her that she should take things slowly... and also.. she is someone who needs a lot of time and attention from the bf.. its going to be kinda of tough for er to start seeing someone who is super busy and unable to give her the kind of time and attention she requires... sighhhh she was going on like a broken record til the point i had to stop her when she kept repeating what her friend pointed out "BUT" blah blah blah.. she used so many times but till the point i got irritated! so had to stop her and pointed it out in her face that hey, get a grip of yourself... my goodness...

when girls fall in love, we tend to behave in the most illogical way and thoughts.. i admit cos i am one of them too.. right now even though i said i am glad of clearing up the misunderstanding.. i still have the tendency to sms him.. but i do not feel that strongly when he don't reply.. now there is less expectations i guess.. well, just hope to keep as friends and nothing more..

he will be transferring to another department i think.. cos he made a decision recently and he has been refusing to tell me about it at all.. however, accoridng to HJ, he has been talking abt this matter for quite a while and most probably will leave.. so sad... sighhh if he leaves, then i will have one friend less in the office and not to mention my rides home... and of cos, i will have no neighbour whom i can click with... SO SAD!!!!

compared this to SJ leaving, i am more affected.. sighhh although it is going to be a promotion for him.. but i guess i will be pretty sad when he leaves.. sighhh have to treasure the times that he is still around...